TIPS

People create their own experience
If I believe in failure, I experience failure. My beliefs and behavior create what happens to me. This presupposition reminds me to take responsibility for my life.Blaming circumstances and others for my failures gets me nowhere, while accepting responsibility for my action, or lack of it, puts me in control of my life.

One Cannot Not Communicate
Communication comprises 55% body language, 38% tone of voice, 7% content of words! So, even when one is not speaking, there is information that is being revealed unconsciously! This is what enables you to ‘pick up’ on ‘vibes’ when you notice someone saying one thing, but you feel they mean another, and you can feel that they’re lying, or hurt, or secretly planning a surprise birthday party. They don’t say it, but maybe they reveal it unconsciously in the little things they do, and your ever aware unconscious picks it up. If you’re someone who’s dealing with people on a daily basis (hey, that’s everyone!), you can learn to fine-tune your awareness to be able to more closely get their territories on your map.

The MAP is not the TERRITORY. Every person perceives and responds based on his map of reality.
As human beings, we can never know reality. We can only know our perceptions of reality. We experience and respond to the world around us primarily through our sensory representational systems. It is our 'neuro-linguistic' maps of reality that determine how we behave and that give those behaviors meaning, not reality itself. It is generally not reality that limits us or empowers us, but rather our map of reality

If you go on doing what you're doing now you are very likely to go on getting the same results as you are getting now
The pre-supposition here is that we are each responsible for our own lives. Though we may not be able to control what goes on in the world around us, we can always control how we respond to those events. If we always act/respond in the same way then the most likely result is that we will maintain the status quo. This is why making a decision on the basis that "that's the way we've always done it" is often the prelude to disaster.